I thought I’d posted this in it’s original form but I can’t find it. Here it is though, a nice video that needed some aspect ratio correction.
That’s something I get asked a lot. It’s not really a pegging question. It’s a question of “How do I find someone to do kinky shit with who doesn’t want a relationship and can’t affect my life/self respect?”
I have no idea. Every partner I have practiced pegging with has been a steady girlfriend. It’s an intimate act. I don’t feel like you are going to find many women who want to fuck you and go home.
The thing that seems to drive a LOT of these questions is that some men don’t want to do it with a partner BECAUSE it’s intimate. It’s the old “If we breakup she will use it against me.” argument/fear. If that’s the issue, and you have real concerns there then don’t do it until -
You are completely comfortable with the idea of pegging; meaning, you don’t care about the stigma, you are fine with ENJOYING it, and you are comfortable trusting someone completely and exposing your desires. (Again, that kind of REQUIRES a meaningful relationship.)
If you just want to experiment, and see if you are “into it” then I suggest an escort. Find someone with references, professional and expensive, do your homework, be safe, and be honest. Of course there is a personal pride thing there that a lot of men can’t get past as well.
As a side note:
On Sex Workers -
I used to have a pretty, unfortunately mainstream view of sex work and the people involved. I happened to meet someone, casually, who was a sex worker part time, and when she revealed it to me I reacted poorly, although I didn’t chastise her or recoil or anything, I still said somethings that were damn stupid and potentially hurtful.
However, very quickly, I learned that there is a large segment of sex work that defies any kind of impression or stereotype that I have ever had or been exposed to. Getting past those kind of stereotypes and stigmas can be difficult; It requires and open mind and a non-judgemental attitude in general;
So does pegging, though.
A very kind anon sent these in and said she couldn’t wait for her husband to get home from work. I wonder if he knows what he’s in for?